1. Terminal command (if this is a fresh installation of lubuntu) -
sudo apt-get update2. Terminal command -
sudo apt-get install vino
3. Terminal command (to setup vino and add password) -
vino-preferences
4. (to add vino to startup) -
vino-preferences
Click start->preferences->Default Applications for LXSession->
Autostart->(enable desktop sharing)
5. Its still not over (solution for "No matching security types" error)
open terminal and enter this command
gsettings set org.gnome.Vino require-encryption false